The ByWay™
Real stories. Behavior science. Zero BS. A Sunday essay for high-achievers done running on empty, plus the shorts and field notes in between.
What if you’re not doing work wrong.
What if you’re just carrying too much of it, in the wrong ways.
When Everything Moves at Once
TMI Alert
You Can Call It Running Away.
But I'm going to call it running toward.
Taking Away My Own Safe Place To Hide
Yeah, that was a choice.... 🤷🏻♀️
I Was Supposed to Be Gone By Now.
The plan went sideways. Good.
Not movement. Not stillness. Deepening.
A note about the knowledge that lives in the in-between and why hard seasons counts even when it doesn't feel like it.
You Can Call It Regression If You Want To...
I’ve been sleeping on a pull-out sofa bed.
The Great Softening
We're so overdue for this one...
What Romanticizing Your Life Actually Means
And how to do it in the one you have right now.
The world got complicated. But being a human is still pretty damn simple.
Do you even remember the assignment?
When Things Settle Down" Is A Recipe for Regret
The lists don't end. The living can't wait for them to.
You've Mastered the Hustle. Here's What Comes Next.
And why I used to only drink my coffee standing up.
Why Your Resolutions Keep Falling Apart & What Actually Works Instead
A winter-reset approach for high-achieving humans who want sustainable change in 2026.