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title: The Great Softening
description: Midlife isn't a crisis — it's a line of sight. Why high-achieving women build the wall, and what happens when you decide to stop living behind it.
---

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# [The Great Softening](https://www.bywayofgrey.com/blog/the-great-softening)

 Written by [Laura Robichaux, NBC-HWC](https://www.bywayofgrey.com/blog/author/laura-robichaux-nbc-hwc) | Aug 10, 2026, 11:20:10 PM

We're so overdue for this one...

We all know that scene in A League of Their Own where Tom Hanks looks at his player with tears welling in her eyes and says, with full authority, “There’s no crying in baseball.”

We laughed. We grew up. And then we went to work and applied it like policy.

 

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